Blended Blessings

My Current Situation...

2010-09-26T17:41:00.000-04:00

This summer, I was truckin' away on this blog....making new friends, working on my new photography hobby/business and having a good ol' time!

THEN....I was hired as a part-time teacher. I wasn't able to take my photography class. I haven't been posting on this blog. It's CRAZY!!

My life now consists of my family, the Deaf ministry at my church, my part-time job as a Video Relay Interpreter and now......

I am teaching 4 high school classes: ASL 100 (2 classes), ASL 200 and ASL 300. Yep. And do I know exactly what I am doing? No. Not really! Ha! But I'm getting there. It takes me a LONG time to create lesson plans, mainly since we do not have a set curriculum.

That is what my current situation is at this time. I miss my blog world though. And my new bloggy friends :(

After things settle, I will be back!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Busy, Busy...

2010-09-02T00:16:00.000-04:00

Where have I been...? (you may be saying to yourself...or not!)

Oh...just doing photo shoots of these lovely people!

And editing them...(not the people, the photos!)

And then taking more shoots of other people that I haven't posted...because I haven't finished editing! In fact, I am behind 3 photo shoots! lol I can't complain. I am having FUN with it :)

Photo Fun

2010-08-25T16:52:00.001-04:00

So, Brent Riggs (Riggs Family Blog) posted on his Linky Tools Blog this picture (see above). The object is to take this photo (which is Brent's) and make it better! In the process, all who participate will learn a thing or two about photo editing (hopefully!)

This picture is my edit. Basically, I just went into Lightroom 3 and clicked on some of the presets to get an idea of what I'd like to do....I clicked on 'yesteryear' and my husband (who was sitting behind me) said, "Hey, that looks exactly like a picture my dad would have taken on vacation in the 70's!". SO, I kind of ran with it :) I adjusted the saturation of the blue to get the sky to stand out a little more and the yellow...to pop the flowers out some more. I put old fashioned corners on. Done! It's simple, but it does remind one of those old photos, eh?

Blessings!
~Bethany :)

Intern

2010-08-24T23:25:00.000-04:00


So, we are all into photography now...right? Well, my stepdaughter has taken it upon herself to follow our creative lead! She took this all by herself...with a tripod and a fan :) Not too shabby, eh?

Selah Photography

2010-08-19T09:21:00.000-04:00

Just in case you haven't noticed my pretty aqua link on the sidebar that says 'Selah Photography', I'll fill you in!

I have been dreaming of being a photographer for many years. I LOVE to take photos because I love people. I am the kind of person that also needs to see progress; something happen from start to finish. With photography, I can be with people, capture their life moments and also use my creative mind to see a beautiful photo come to life!

I've only just begun, and I still have much to learn! I plan to take an online course this fall and I continually study information from the Net and various established photographers.

Check out my photoblog HERE and let me know what you think!

Blessings!
~Bethany :)

Sam's Mission Trip...and Other Notes of Interest :)

2010-08-17T14:17:00.000-04:00

SQUIRREL! (This isn't part of the mission trip-ha! It was supposed to go on the bottom of the post...sigh)

This is Sam, Katie and Drew....

Mark and I went to a special 'Parent's Night' during the week of Sam's trip. It was neat to be able to see all the kids....most mission trips aren't this close to home!

This is Sam and Joe....Joe is the middle school pastor and was Sam's small group leader last year.

These are cool! They are little bags with each kid's name on them. When another student sees someone doing an act of kindness or doing an act of service above and beyond, a note is written and dropped in their bag. It shows them affirmation and gives them encouragement during the week.

More singing! Side note: At the church in Detroit, Sam was able to sing and play his guitar for their worship time!

This is when the group went in front of the church for prayer.... Sam is in the plaid shirt, looking away :) You can't tell from this, but there were around 135 kids altogether!

This past weekend, we went to see a colonial reenactment. Did women and children really go on the battlefield? I'll have to research that!

Alex (blue shirt) went on a bike adventure with some of his old friends from high school! They rode 70 miles altogether (they camped for one night). Oh, to be young again!

I guess that is all for now :)
I have been a little sickish due to an RA flareup. My Dr. is prescribing a new infusion drug, so hopefully, that will help!
I'm doing a family photo shoot today and a high school Senior tomorrow! Woohoo!

Blessings!
~Bethany :)

Mission Trip!

2010-08-11T13:49:00.001-04:00

Sam is smack dab in the middle of 'Citiweek'....a mission trip right in our own state! There are over 100 students serving in Detroit this week. Sam is on the far right, wearing a hat :) This is his 'team'. Can't wait to hear how God uses them all!

Back from CAMP!

2010-08-07T00:38:00.001-04:00

J., the 8 year old, just returned from his first camping experience! Here are some pictures taken while he was there....I am pretty sure he had a BLAST!

The cabin.


Near the charter bus (they took FOUR charter buses!!). As you can see, J. is in 'Team Squirrel'.


The whole gang :)


Beautiful!


I think this sums it up quite nicely, don't you?

Blessings!
~Bethany :)

Picture of the Day :)

2010-08-06T00:21:00.000-04:00

Beach Practice

2010-08-03T22:14:00.001-04:00

Check out my beach pics of Gabe!

Comparing Notes...

2010-08-02T22:43:00.000-04:00

Gabe to Girl: "So...um, how did you break your arm? Is that waterproof?? I broke mine in an inflatable accident."

Girl to Gabe: "Oh wow...really?? Yeah. It's pink and waterproof. I broke mine on a ladder."

Blessings!
~Bethany :)

Summer Vacation ~ Part Four

2010-08-01T19:43:00.003-04:00


First of all, I'd like to share one of my favorite pictures of Gabe. I took it a few nights ago while doing a photo shoot! Gabe was my first model :) Just so you know, I've created a separate blog for my photography habit (not yet technically a business). Go here! It's is very NEW...so there isn't much there yet. There will be though...just wait and see!

This is the 'Historical Entrance'. It had a frigid breeze flowing out from the inside....

See what happened to Josh's glasses when we came back out??

Our tour was called "Frozen Niagara" and you can see why! It's amazing to see the inside of a very old cave!

Mark and most of the kids....Alex and Sam were not with us for this portion of the trip. Sam was with his dad for a rare visit and Alex was working at a church camp as a counselor.


Here is Mark and some of the boys...overlooking a...well, an overlook :)

Summer Vacation ~ Part Three!

2010-07-29T16:09:00.000-04:00

For the 3rd segment of our vacation memoir, here are pictures from when we went to the Cincinnati ZOO!

I love that Raffi song..."We're goin' to the zoo, zoo, zoo...how about you, you, you?". Have you heard it??

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Now...about that award :)

2010-07-28T23:07:00.002-04:00

Thank you Lindsay at Looking for Strawberries! She was kind enough to think of me and my new, little blog :)

Part of this award is to share 7 things about myself. Here I go!

1. I've lived in 8 different states.

2. I'm a nationally certified Interpreter for the Deaf and Deaf/Blind.

3. My BA is in Interpreting and my Masters is in Secondary Education.

4. I have 3 sons, 2 stepsons and 2 stepdaughters.

5. My husband is a bicycle mechanic and a college student (and a wonderful dad, I might add).

6. I love singing, photography and all kinds of art. (I sing in the choir at church and also on the worship team a few times a year)

7. I am content being in a blended family...although it has it's challenges, I can truthfully say that God has blessed us more than I could ever imagine!

Now, I need to pass this award on to 15 bloggers that I have recently discovered. Um...the thing is, I only have found about 5! It's not that I don't want to find more, it's just that it takes time...and I either don't have much time to search or I get distracted!

I'll try!

1. Amy Horne Photography
2. Pixel Perfect
3. The Paper Mama
4. Sailor & Company
5. Life With All These Crazy People, Me Included!
6. Sound Mind, Sound Body
7. Brightsides
8. The Redhead Riter

So...these are the only blogs I visit! So far :) I also like to read Mckmama, Bring the Rain & Kellys Korner. I'm pretty sure they have all gotten this award plus many more.

Give them ALL a visit! You know, when you have time :)

Blessings!

~Bethany

My Very 1st Blog Award!

2010-07-28T15:29:00.000-04:00

Here it is!

More to come later....my hubby and I are going on 'date night' for the 1st time in like...2 months!

Blessings!

Random Thoughts....

2010-07-27T12:09:00.005-04:00

I was thinking last night, while I sat at my Aunt and Uncle's pool, watching the kids play as the sun set....isn't summer wonderful?? Swimming, a little traveling, time with friends & family....heck, the warmth alone is enough for me!

Yesterday, Mark and I took all the kids (ALL...even Alex!) to my Uncle Bob's and Aunt Janella's. They live out in the country and have a big garden, an inground pool and my Aunt always makes us a spectacular meal. My Uncle is 76 years old now and a retired pastor. He has many stories to tell! My Dad was there too, but he could only stay a few hours (he's 'semi-retired'!).

It was so nice to be with my family.

I think about people that don't have family. Or kids. Or a husband. Or single moms and dads. There were times in my life that I didn't have anyone but my kids. It can feel very lonely. Here in Michigan, I don't see my family that often, but it's sure nice to have them! With my Dad and Uncle in their 70's now, I feel that these are our last years with them....and I want to make sure that we enjoy them and not take them for granted.

As for other news....

Sam was asked by our Youth Minister to go see HILLSONG UNITED (http://www.hillsongunited.com/)
tonight! I'm so jealous :) The cool thing about it is, Jerry only asked 10 kids to go with him. 10 kids that are involved in worship arts. For now, Sam sings and plays guitar...and is currently taking guitar lessons. He hasn't actually been on stage at church yet, but Jerry knows that he wants to do that in the future. It was so nice of Jerry to think of Sam. What a blessing!

Gabe gets his cast off this Friday. He can't WAIT to swim again. Yesterday, my Uncle set up the sprinkler for him while the other kids swam in the pool. G. is such a sweetie...he never complained or pouted. I love that kid :)

My hands are kind of numb and stiff right now. My RA (Rheumatoid Arthritis) is flaring up and work is not much fun. I've found that running hot water over them on my break helps! Thank goodness I am getting an infusion tomorrow. And I'm off work too. Double bonus day :)

I still need to post Part 3 and 4 of our vacation! I'm getting behind!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Machine Gun Preacher

2010-07-22T16:41:00.002-04:00

Mark, Gabe (my 7 year old) and I were EXTRAS this past Tuesday in a movie being filmed called "Machine Gun Preacher".

How fun is that??

This movie is based on a true story (and a book). The real Machine Gun Preacher is Sam Childers. His story/website is here: http://www.machinegunpreacher.org/

It's an amazing story.

Anyhoo...while we were there, for 12 hours I might add, there was a scene filmed that was a sweet little girl singing "Amazing Grace". I have NEVER heard a child sing the way Rhema did! The hardest part was to sit there in complete silence (with 200ish other extras, cast and crew) until the director said 'cut'! God surely did give her a beautiful voice.

Check out her music video here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DDDlxmsciqY

Yes, it was an exciting day..... We had to be on the set at 6:30 a.m. (did I mention I'm not a morning person?). By 1 p.m. or so, Gabe had decided to take a nap, right before Rhema sang. My worst fear was that she'd be in the middle of her song and Gabe would wake up...crying or whining about where he was! Oh my. That would have been embarassing. He didn't wake up though...through two 'takes'. And the assistant director (or 'AD' as they are called) came and sat with us for awhile...asking Gabe how he broke his arm and such. Everyone on the set was respectful, kind...nothing at all as I imagined a movie set would be. Not to mention getting my hair and makeup done several times throughout the day!

Very cool :)

So, when MGP comes out next year, look for us! We'll be in the church congregation where Sam Childers (played by Gerard Butler) gets saved!

Blessings!
~Bethany :)

Summer Vacation ~ Part Two ~ The MEGA Reunion

2010-07-22T09:20:00.000-04:00

Our vacation was SO much fun! First, we went to Grandpa's farm, then we went to the MEGA Southland Youth Reunion....which was a wonderful day of mingling with old friends (and my beloved Youth Minister, Brewster!) from my youth group years at my home church in Kentucky. The only downer of the day was that my youngest broke his arm on the inflatable slide! He's okay now....but parenting is such a RIDE, isn't it? :)

Summer Vacation ~ Part One ~ Jelly Making in Kentucky

2010-07-18T21:41:00.001-04:00

Happy Birthday America!!

2010-07-05T21:04:00.001-04:00

Oldest Girl

2010-07-02T22:33:00.000-04:00

This is the oldest girl in the family. She has lots of good qualities...one being very pretty eyes :)

She is a good cyclist as well.

I'm excited to see her life progress.

It's hard to believe she will be 16 this year!

That's all--just thought I'd share :)

~Bethany~

A Day at the Park!

2010-06-28T20:46:00.000-04:00

~Random Mind Monologue~

2010-06-28T11:53:00.002-04:00

Happy MONDAY!

I'm at work now, typing this inbetween calls. I'm an interpreter for the deaf, and I make phone calls ALL day for those that use a video phone. It's quite interesting :)
My stepkids are with us more these days. In the summer, we have them 3 days, then 4 days a week...alternating. Except when there are exceptions. Like, when we go on vacation together, we'll keep them for a whole week and so on. As time goes on, it is a little easier to handle time with the kids. There is less bitterness and less....um....I guess it is easier for the kid's mom to let them stay with us. Does that make sense? They are getting older now and she is busier with her work and such. Maybe her perspective has changed. Either way, it is easier!
Alex, the oldest, is still here. He seems to be having a blast! I'm glad he has this opportunity, to serve God as a camp counselor for kids that may have never known His love without this camp experience. Alex will be back home in mid-July....he'll hang out with us until summer's end.
I need to think of ways to keep Sam busy. He's 14 and restless. We're going on vacation pretty soon, so that will help. He's going on a mission trip with our church in August. I'll try to find ways to 'fill in the blanks' as needed :)
The other kids are doing well. It takes all of our energy to keep them in line and busy :) This past weekend, we went to a park with two other families....pictures will be posted later today (I hope!).
After work, I am taking one of the girls shopping. She only has a few pairs of shorts. We try Salvation Army 1st. It's my favorite :)
Tonight, we're having our last planning meeting for the MEGA Southland Youth Reunion! I will participate via Skype....everyone else is local but me. The planning for this reunion has been in process for over a year--it's FINALLY happening! SO exciting :)

Until Soon....
~Bethany :)

Wordless Wednesday

2010-06-23T21:30:00.003-04:00

Father's Day ~ 2010

BUSY Day

2010-06-22T22:58:00.010-04:00

I read MckMama's blog and she will sometimes title her posts 'Stream of Consciousness' where she writes her random thoughts about the day. I like it. I don't want to copy her idea though.
Although, the actual term is related to grammar and all...so, she didn't make the words up on her own or anything.

I was trying to think of another way to title those random, thoughtful blog entries. Here are some of my ideas....and Mark's:

Mindless Chatter (but it isn't mindless now, is it?)
Free Writing (boring)
Flowing Thoughts (Mark's idea)

Okay...so, none of those are working for me.
What do you think?

Enough of that!

I am going to post a few more pictures. My goal is to have them appear directly under this sentence. We will see.

It didn't work. Why won't pictures go where I want them to go?

Sigh...

Today was rather busy. I dropped off the two youngest boys at day camp, went to work, came home and then we proceeded to take 3 of the boys to dinner and a movie

We saw Toy Story 3. I laughed, I stressed out about the possible 'death' of toys (wow--how do they..meaning producers/movie makers...do that?!) and I cried! All in all, it was very well done. The story was all too raw since my baby Alex, who is going to be 20 this year, just left home last year for college. Just like Andy, he too had a Buzz Lightyear that was left behind :( I'm pretty sure I donated it. Sadly.

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

New Camera ~ New Pictures!

2010-06-22T00:07:00.011-04:00

My husband was kind enough to buy me a very SWEET camera!

(It's an early birthday present)

Course, he uses it too :)

Here are a few of our first ones.

ENJOY!

Blessings!

~Bethany

Random News & Events

2010-05-05T10:00:00.003-04:00

Happy Cinco de Mayo!!

Here is what's been going on with our family!

*Precision Mobile Bicycle Services, Mark's new business, is well....kind of slow. Nothing much has happened. A few repair jobs have been made, but that's it. Mark just finished his semester at school/college and is now going to give the business a good push and see how it goes. We're praying that God will bless his efforts and help the business become profitable for our family. It's even more of an issue now since Mark's unemployment benefits have been exhausted.

GOD IS IN CONTROL!!!

*Speaking of college....
Today is Alex's last day of his first year of college! He has two finals to take and he's DONE. Mark is going to pick him up tomorrow. The concern for him now is summer. Alex applied to a camp to be a counselor. He was accepted but the thing is, this camp is sort of a mission-type situation. In order for the kids to attend (mostly inner-city, low income children) the counselors need to raise moeny ($3500!) to assist in this...and also to get paid at the end of it all. So far, Alex has not gotten any sponsors. So, we're not exactly sure how this will work. Alex seems dead set on going...he has lots of faith! But in my mind, I'd really like him to pursue the camp but also make alternate plans...just in case.

*Sam will be playing the role of Aladdin in his school play NEXT WEEK! Very exciting :)

*Last weekend, we went on a Family Mission Trip with other families from our church. It was SO much fun!!! We went to Center Lake Bible Camp --- beautiful! It was nice to work alongside the kids and not hear any whining or bickering (or, at least not too much). A few kids tried to fish during our free time and Alyssa and I went canoeing.

More to come later! I'm working and should be, er...paying attention!

Blessings!!!

~Bethany :)

Our New Family Member....

2010-04-20T20:04:00.003-04:00

Yes...we now have a Mac. The kids are enjoying playing with our new toy!

Wordless Wednesday

2010-03-10T12:05:00.002-05:00

My oldest is running around here all week...alone...on an adventure!

My Typical Day

2010-03-05T13:46:00.003-05:00

First of all, I don't usually have a 'typical' day! I'll give you one that is close though...
This is a weekday, not a weekend...which would be MUCH different. During the week, Mark and I only have 2 kids! Except in the summer...we have Mark's kids 3 or 4 days a week :)

6:20 a.m. - Hubby awakes.
6:30 a.m. - I hear my son Sam jump in the shower.
6:31 a.m. - I hit the snooze button and set the clock again for 6:55 a.m.
6:55 a.m. - I turn off my alarm and gaze at my husbands clock...which says it is 6:50. So, I feel I have a few more minutes to sleep...which usually means that I finally climb out of bed at 7:01. *Understand that I am supposed to get up at 6:30! (I'm not a morning person)
7:10 a.m. - Sam leaves for school and starts my car on the way (so it's warm for me). Gabe also arises at this time.
7:16 to 7:25 a.m. - I leave for work...assuming I start at 8 (which is most days). I kiss Gabe and Mark good-bye on the way! I usually feel like...well, you-know-what when I get up in the morning (due to the RA). I tend to feel better later in the day...
8:00 a.m. - Arrive at work. Start working....
2:00 p.m. or 3 p.m. or 4 p.m. - I leave work (one of my best moments of the day!)
At this time, I either go straight home, go shopping or go to a random appointment of some kind.
3 p.m. or 4 p.m. - Arrive home. I check on Mark and the boys. If Sam is at an after school activity, he needs to be picked up at 4:30 . Right now, it's time to rehearse for the school play...Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays.
4:30 p.m. -6 p.m. - Dinner is made and eaten at some point. We may get take out one night a week....
6:00 p.m. (or s0) - Depending on the day, we either have: Small Group (we bring Gabe with us), B-ball practice (for Gabe and I), or Awana/Oasis (at church). Thursday nights are usually FREE. We allow the boys to have video game time that evening.
8:00 p.m. - Finish up any homework, tidy-up, watch a movie, take a bath....
9:20 p.m. - Boys are ready for bed. Brush teeth...read a book...say prayers...kisses....GOOD NIGHT!
9:30 p.m. - Mark and I finally have conversation...and maybe spend some time together :)
10:30 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. - Bedtime for me!

There ya go!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Happy Birthday Dr. Seuss!

2010-03-02T12:34:00.001-05:00

Wordless Wednesday (a day early)

2010-02-23T17:23:00.001-05:00

I Wish I Was a Better Blogger!

2010-01-22T11:15:00.004-05:00

I don't think I am meant to be a successful blogger :(

So, I haven't posted anything in a VERY long time. Christmas and New Year's has come and gone...

We are all fine! That's always good :)

My heart breaks for Haiti.

Sam is in State Honors Choir and his concert is tomorrow in Grand Rapids. We are going to go tonight and stay at a hotel. I was hoping to take Alex, but he can't get a replacement for work. I decided to take Gabe with me. There is an indoor pool at the hotel, so that should be fun :) Mark will stay home with the others.

Gabe started Upward Basketball at church. I highly recommend it! Great program. I am an assistant coach for his cute little team :) There is nothing better than running around with 10 1st grade boys! Nope!

Aunt Brenda gave us two 'male' robo hamsters. On Christmas Eve, Alex and Sam found that they had 3 baby hamsters! Male, my foot! (what a strange saying) We read online that we are to separate the male and female so she doesn't get pregnant again. Course, we didn't read this until too late...she had 4 more babies a week or so ago! My goodness. Thankfully, the pet store took the first litter. Jules took the male to her mom's house and with any luck, their mom will let them take any male babies that were just born. We have to wait until they are older though...

I hope everyone is having a safe and happy January! I'm SO ready for SPRING!!!!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Happy Thanksgiving!!

2009-11-27T12:46:00.002-05:00

I'm thankful for:

*My Lord Jesus...for saving me and showing me how to live a good life

*My husband, Mark--the best in the world!

*My awesome kids :)

*My family

*My church family

*The ability to have a good job

*My RA isn't too awful bad

*MUSIC

*Refridgerators

*My warm bed

*Comfort foods

*That my kids are all pretty healthy

*And MUCH MORE!

Thank you Lord...for giving to me Your love, grace and abundant blessing!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Peeking In...

2009-11-10T20:18:00.004-05:00

Here's a peek into what we've been up to!!

THREE birthdays!

*Alyssa-October 18, 15 years old.

*Alex-October 30, 19 years old.

*Gabriel-November 8, 7 years old!

Whew!!

Oh...and Halloween :)

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

P.S. Please excuse my messy house! (7 children...remember the 7 children!)

I Wish...

2009-10-18T20:00:00.003-04:00

I wish I could say that our engagement spot still looked this beautiful....

I took this picture from my phone as I sat on the bench where Mark proposed to me 3 years ago. It (the picture day) was in September...around the beginning of the month. Last night, our low here was 32 degrees!

Needless to say, Winter is well on it's way!

Blessings!! (Brrrrr!!!)

~Bethany :)

Hiney Shot

2009-09-30T09:14:00.002-04:00

No...there isn't a picture of a hiney on here! lol

But yesterday, I was able to get a shot in my hiney! That means, my RA will subside for awhile until I can get an infusion at the hospital. Sheesh!

I talked with someone in the billing department at the hospital and she said to go ahead and get my infusion and they will wait to bill Medicare. Hopefully, Part B will be reinstated soon!

The other issue is I have a cold. I cannot get an infusion if I am sick. Nor can I get a flu shot. So, for now, I am 'on hold'.

Speaking of 'on hold', I am at work and my client and I are 'on hold' as I write! Ahh...the life of a phone operator for the deaf.

Tonight, we are going to take Sam out to dinner and to Target to buy a little something for his b-day...which was 2 weeks ago. We are planning to go to church as well. Gabe memorized two verses this week for Awana. Pretty soon, he'll get a new patch! :)

Not much news from Alex. I keep trying to call him but he doesn't answer or call back :( He was fighting a cold too...last I heard.

That's all for now!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Vent Session

2009-09-26T16:51:00.002-04:00

Do you mind if I just VENT for a moment (or two!)?

Maybe I shouldn't though....I mean, God has blessed me with a wonderful life. I shouldn't complain. Really.

Okay...but just for a moment.

Just don't think that I don't appreciate all the wonderful parts of my life!!!

I have Medicare because I don't have insurance at my job. I recently learned that although we pay the Medicare premium, someone decided to CUT my Part B....which pays for doctor visits AND my infusion medication. The thing is, I am DUE for an infusion. I mean, I am struggling!

And guess what else? The lady I spoke with at the Social Security office said that it could take up to 90 days....yes....90 DAYS...to get Part B reinstated.

Now what I am supposed to do??

I need benefits! I need a job with good insurance. I'm just not sure how to do that. What a pain!!

Okay. I'm done. That's my moment!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

*Really...I DO have a great life!

New Pics :)

2009-09-23T15:00:00.003-04:00

PICTURES!!!

The Detroit Zoo, Mark's big bike race and our new marching band kid!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Busy Days...

2009-09-23T11:35:00.002-04:00

HELLO!

I haven't written much lately. We've been busy with school, work, etc.

The most exciting venture is Mark's new bicycle repair business--more on that soon!

I don't seem to have time to blog in the evening. We are busy EVERY night!

Monday - Small Group
Tuesday - Mark has class
Wednesday - Awana/Oasis (aka--church!)
Thursday - Mark has class and I have choir (can you believe that practice has started for the CHRISTMAS PROGRAM?????)
Friday - Arrival of step-children (meaning....more busy times!)

I feel like I have SO much to do-especially regarding 'paperwork'. Such as, Medicare apparently stopped providing me with doctor visits (Part B). Why? I have to call them when I am done with work today. I'm sure there is no easy solution. We pay them. Why is there a problem?

Yeah....'issues' such as these keep popping up and they are quickly growing into a huge pile of issues.

Oh well.

Alex is doing well in college! And the other kids haven't complained once about their new school year! Gabe has a runny nose though....he usually gets sick within the 1st few weeks.

I'll post more soon---and some new pics too!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Moving (IN) Day ~ MSU 09'

2009-09-04T00:37:00.003-04:00

Blog Templates?

2009-08-27T13:32:00.003-04:00

I am having the toughest time trying to figure out a good template for my blog! Sheesh! I mean, Blogspot offers some nice choices....but none of them are really....me.

I haven't posted for awhile...and I am working now and won't be able to type much. We are all fine!

TWO more days til' Alex moves into State! Yikes. Poor thing....he didn't pass his driver's ed test the other day. He's so disappointed. Stupid parallel parking!!

Hope all is well!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

A Visit to the DIA

2009-08-12T12:50:00.007-04:00

I took the boys....just my three sons (get it??) to the Detroit Institute of Art. After all, I am one of those 'artsy' types (or, at least a 'wannabe'!).

Gabe enjoyed the part where he could practice his drawing skills. Sam...well, he wasn't bored per se. He did enjoy parts of the visit!

(sorry about the poor picture quality...I had to use the cell phone again!)

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

(in) courage

2009-08-11T11:21:00.004-04:00

COURAGE.

What does courage mean to me?

Automatically, I think of my favorite "Wizard of Oz" character...he tried so hard to be brave. When the rubber met the road, he failed miserably!

Sometimes courage happens as a result of no other option.

Sometimes, I don't want to be courageous. I have to. I don't have a choice.

Sometimes, I muster up courage through my faith in God. He guides me. He give me strength to have courage.

Since being diagnosed with an autoimmune disease, I have learned to lean on Him. I do not know what the future holds for me physically, but I know that I can have the courage to enjoy each day that God gives me.

Sometimes, I am scared.

Sometimes, I need courage to let my children be independent. It isn't easy!

Sometimes, being in a stepfamily isn't easy either. It takes courage to deal with issues that are not relevant to 'traditional' families. It takes patience, trust in my Lord, humbleness....did I say patience?

More than anything, COURAGE means that I have to LET GO.

That is what courage means to me!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

P.S. Check out the link for (in) courage--it's on the toolbar on the left! Or go to: http://www.incourage.me/

"Not Me" Monday!

2009-08-10T10:54:00.006-04:00

(I've never done this before--how exciting!)

This is a game that MckMamma created so that we can all have the opportunity to

'voice' our mistakes/mishaps.....do I really want to join???

SURE! Why not??

Here it goes....

~I did NOT eat a huge chocolate chip cookie and a handful of Bugles last night at the Loscher's home. NO way...not after doing so well eating healthy for these past 3 weeks. Not me!

~I did not get to work today, set up my station and cringe when I saw myself on the video phone....I was not horrified by the unsightly cellulite on my upper arms. Nope...it didn't bother me whatsoever.

~I never check on my 6 year old son to see if he is breathing each night....he's too old for me to do that. I'm never paranoid about our kids and their safety!

~I am also not upset about my oldest son going to college in a few weeks. I am CONFIDENT he will always have good food to eat, clean clothes to wear and wonderful, Christian friends to hang out with. I am not concerned about his safety AT ALL.

~I did NOT enjoy singing in the choir at church this past weekend....those people drive me insane! :)

Okay...there you have it. My first "Not Me" Monday entry. That wasn't too tough....all that lying! lol

Next time, I'm sure I will have more to offer.

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

The Days of Our Lives

2009-08-06T13:00:00.013-04:00

And these...are the days of our lives! (At least, most recently!)

*No more training wheels! Yep--Gabe and Jordan are riding fancy and free these days! Here is a proud Gaby with Mark a few weeks ago.

NOTE: As I attempt to write this post, I seem to be unable to format it to my liking--UGH! Well, anyway, I'll explain the pictures in the awkward way! (Everytime I post a picture, it moves everything around!)

*Those huge inflatable balls? Alyssa and Sam are in there. Isn't that a strange toy? We had a lot of fun at Mark's brother's lake house a few weeks ago...all kinds of things to do!

*Those bikers are Alex and Mark. The past several months have been filled with biking trails, getting muddy and spending ungodly amounts of money on bicycles and parts! But...they are having fun! I have even joined in and have been riding my bike a few times a week. We have ventured out with all the kids a few times as well.....do you know how difficult it is to tote 9 bicycles in two cars?? It's insane. Truly.

*Just for fun, I gave Gabe a mohawk a week or so ago. He looks adorable :)

Jordan was really digging it and wanted to get chopped as well, but alas, his mother was not in favor of the drastic change. We respected her wishes and opted for lots of gel and hairspray instead. (another one of those step-family issues....you can't just cut hair whenever you please!).

Their 'after' picture is at the top.

Yeah...so, I posted the pictures with the intent of writing explainations beside (or under) each. I have to figure out how to format this a bit better.

SO...these pictures offer a little insight as to the current "Day's of Our Lives"!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Yipee!

2009-08-01T13:53:00.007-04:00

Stellan is feeling better!!! Yipee!

(I hope MckMama doesn't mind that I copy and paste her blog pictures to my blog!!).

Praise God!!

The pic above is of Jules and her friend. It was a birthday surprise! We invited Lindsey secretly to join us at the waterpark. They were wearing the same coverup...very cool :)

The boy in the mask is Josh. We have been swimming a few days a week all summer--all the kids are swimming very well now!

Have a beautiful day!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

"My Father's House"

2009-07-29T08:58:00.003-04:00

Alex has been back for a few weeks now....he had a wonderful experience in JAMAICA! It was fun to see his friends from the mission trip come to his graduation party. What a great group of kids!

I thought I would post info on where Alex went. I will try to create a link here!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Stellan

2009-07-28T11:04:00.004-04:00

I'm so bummed....Stellan is back in the hospital. This poor baby has a severe heart problem and needs lots of prayer!! I know that very few people read my blog, but if you do---PRAY!!!

I can't imagine....

Dear Lord....please hold Stellan close. Be with his mom and dad. Help them to gain strength from You...strength and hope. Stellan has been holding on for all of these months....keep him strong. Help his heart to stay in perfect rhythm. Be with the Doctors and make them understand what Stellan needs. Give them wisdom dear Lord. This situation is in Your hands. Thank you for hearing our prayers for Stellan.

In Jesus' name, AMEN.

I'll keep you posted. OR, you can visit Mckmama's website....www.mycharmingkids.net.

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

AHHHH!!!!

2009-07-23T09:45:00.002-04:00

My current life activity consists of the following...

*Alex's graduation party is in two days. I have not, I repeat, HAVE NOT done much of anything to prepare for this day! My biggest concern is making a photo banner for Alex. That will take some time and effort!!

*My dad is recovering from surgery in the hospital and I have to visit with him and take care of his dog. Unfortunately, I ran off this morning with Dad's house key and Mark could not walk Buddy....he is going to be holding it for awhile while I work and then visit dad today. Poor thing....

*Mark left. He went with his brother Brad to Kentucky for a funeral this morning and will not be back until tomorrow night.

*I MUST send Alex's scholarship checks to MSU today. I must also send copies of financial records to Kentucky Child Support. I don't have time for this today!!!

*I haven't seen my children in two days. Literally. Two days. The next 48 hours do not look very promising either.

*While all this is going on....Sam is at Young Artists Camp at Woodside this week and he needs to be picked up each day at 4:30 p.m. Tonight, Alex and I need to pick up a tent and deliver it to the Harris's for the grad party Saturday. Did I mention it is supposed to rain Saturday??

I'm whiny today...and tired. I haven't slept much. I'm at work, struggling to stay awake!

I started Weight Watchers a week ago. I am bummed because I haven't had any opportunity to excerise in the past two days....I had been doing SO well!!

AHHHHH!!!!!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

All Grown Up

2009-07-21T09:50:00.003-04:00

I found this picture on our church website. The kids in the youth group try to find creative ways to present announcements each Sunday....this particular time, Alex and his friend Brad told announcements as though they were heralds of sort, playing fanfare music between each announcement.

He's always doing cool things like that :)

It's a strange time in our home. It feels weird to know that Alex is going to college. Yesterday, we were talking about October 25th....David Crowder will be coming to our church for a concert. I told Alex not to worry, he could come home that weekend and go with us. He said, "Oh yeah. I'll be in college then". It's just weird. Odd. I can't quite grasp it!

When I graduated high school, I absolutely could not WAIT to go to college. I was living with my father at that time, had no real relationship with my mother and I felt excited to be moving on to bigger and better things! I love my father and all, but my stepmother at the time wasn't the nicest person in the world. And we weren't a very close family. I was more than ready to go.

With Alex, it's different. He will be missed. I think Alex is feeling a bit stressed about the impending change as well. I mean, he's excited to go, don't get me wrong, but his emotions seem to be a bit off right now.

I am sure that when he actually goes and settles in, all will be fine. I mean, he is going to be coming back home. And he isn't going to be that far away.

Alex is all grown up.

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

This isn't the family picture I was hoping for!

2009-07-05T02:23:00.002-04:00

You know how we were supposed to get a family picture taken? Well...that didn't really happen. Instead, we have this beauty taken from my CELL PHONE!

My friend from work forgot about us that day :( Oh well...I guess we'll have to try again another time.

Mark just took Alex down to Ram's Horn to meet up with the Jamaica mission team. I'm a little worried...I know I shouldn't be, but Alex is still my baby!!!

That's all for now...it's getting close to 3 a.m. and Mark should be home soon.

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Happy 4th!

2009-07-04T12:27:00.003-04:00

Happy 4th of July!

We saw fireworks last night. We were joking about them being 4-D---we could hear them, feel them...taste them! Ha! They were literally chunks of firework pieces falling on us! Weird....

But we managed to leave without much harm done. And Josh has more things to add to his collection of 'stuff'. I've never had that happen before!

We had a good time last night. We had Steve and Monica over and they have their 3 adorable kids, all of our kids and then, Rob and Lisa came too...with their daughter, Megan. Mark grilled hamburgers, hotdogs and brauts (spelling?). It was a lot of fun!! I am so thankful that we have friends and there are folks that like to hang out with us :)

Last Saturday, I graduated with my Masters! Praise the Lord! Now, I have a few months before I have to start paying on my loans. That will be a bummer....

I am at work today...yes...on the holiday. We celebrated yesterday, so that is okay. Alex is getting ready to leave on his mission trip. Last Monday, I was walking to the mailbox with Mark and the kids....praying that Alex's passport would be there. It was!!! God answered those prayers for sure. He is set to leave EARLY in the morning. Mark is going to take him to Ram's Horn (a 24-hour restaurant) at 2 a.m. and his flight will leave at 6 a.m.-ish. He is a little nervous, but excited! I'm praying for his safety and for his confidence as he shares the gospel. He is going to present a short message on Sunday at the church that the orphans attend. He will do great, I'm sure!

Everything else is normal....somewhat. We are having a few issues with teenage children and hormones. Yes....it is inevitable I suppose. Mark and I have told the kids that we do not agree with dating or anything associated with dating....until they are at least 16 years old. That's the rule. But a couple of the kids have had a crush and they have contact with their 'significant other' via emails and texts. Not good. When they do that, they are feeding the relationship....and it gets too involved. One of the boys was pretty upset when his 'friend' (they always say, "we're just friends!", don't they? I did!), decided she didn't like him so much that way anymore. We do not need extra drama in the teenage life! That is for sure. The less, the better. SO...Mark is planning to review our terms for dating. Even going with their family somewhere....or the other person joining our family....it's just too much like dating. Thankfully, Alex has succeeded in keeping himself from the drama. We'll see how it goes in college!! Just 6 more teenagers to go through!!!!

Better go for now!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Father's Day, etc.

2009-06-20T18:18:00.002-04:00

I'm not exactly sure what to do for Father's Day.... Mark is an incredible dad and I don't think that anything I do will be adequate. I have a plan for the kids to make him a card...which we need to do quickly. And I thought about making quiche for breakfast...which he would really like. But I need to go to the grocery store....and right now, I am working. When I am done working at 7 p.m., I need to get home so we can go visit our friends. We're going to their house to have a bonfire and make smores! When will I go to the grocery store?

What about MY father? Sheesh.

On Monday, we are getting a family picture taken at a local park. My friend at work, she is an amatuer photographer. She took pics for our wedding too. That was the last time the whole family was in some type of formal group shot! Do you know how difficult it is to find clothing for this type of event??? I decided on natural-looking colors....yellows, browns, and orange...then, we could all wear khaki on the bottom (shorts, capris, etc.). I was going to take the two girls to get their hair styled...but I can't find the phone number of the girl who does it out of her home. And I sure can't afford it at the salon! SO....looks like I will be doing hair that day too! Jules is easy...last week, we tried to 'flip up' her ends and it worked! Looked really cute. Alyssa is a different story...she has stubborn hair! I think I'll just try to straighten it and then maybe put a few pins in to keep it out of her face.

I'll post it here after I get copies!

Yeah...so, I am not ready for Father's Day. And Stellan (the baby at the top right of my blog) is sick again and in the hospital. That is frustrating.

Other than that---did I tell you how relieved I am to be DONE WITH STUDENT TEACHING!!!???

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

RELIEF

2009-06-15T19:41:00.003-04:00

RELIEF is the one word to describe how I feel after finishing student teaching--that's right--I'm DONE!!! I cannot explain how happy I am to be free from college! I thought student teaching would be different. I was excited about it at first. After a few weeks, I found that it was going to be quite different than what I had imagined! There are a lot of negative topics I could discuss, but ah...it's not worth it.

I have neglected my blog for so long! I know...nobody reads it, but still!

Let's see....instead of elaborating on all that has been happening, I'll do bullet points :)
(okay..so they are asterisks--sue me!)
*Today, I am officially done with my Masters program.
*On June 5th, Alex, the 18 year old son, graduated from high school with honors.
*On June 2nd, Sam, the 13 year old son, sang a solo-"Yesterday" (The Beatles song)-and played guitar at his spring choir concert.
*Alyssa, the 14 year old daughter, started pre-band camp today for marching band. She is officially starting high school!
*On June 27th, I will graduate at Ford Field (I am wearing a hood on my gown!).
*July 5th, Alex leaves for a mission trip to JAMAICA!!
*On July 22nd, we are having Alex's graduation party.

Other than that, there is not much new! Gabe finished Kindergarten and Jordan finished 1st grade. Jules will be going to MIDDLE SCHOOL...which is insane!!! The kids are all moving on up to bigger and better things! Lord...keep them near!!

That is all for now!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Busy Busy!

2009-04-03T20:39:00.003-04:00

For the two people that read this Blog (or maybe 3!), I'm sorry I haven't kept up with it much lately! Life is kind of crazy for now...

Stellan, the sick baby boy that I mentioned before, is doing a little better. He still has a major heart problem, but everything is under control for now. Well, God is in control! We're still gonna keep prayin'!

I am just getting over a stomach virus of some sort! I was out for several days....meaning, not functioning well enough to do much of anything. What a pain! Poor Mark. Yesterday morning, I had been up all night (it wasn't pretty) and at 4:30 a.m., I decided I couldn't take it anymore and I asked him to take me to the ER. I really didn't want to do that. I took two bags of fluid though and felt much better. I was dehydrated :(

And the party continues!

Julianna was sick too....she is recovering from bronchitis. Mark's stomach is making funny noises....I hope he doesn't get my sickness!!!

Student teaching is okay. I don't know. I am struggling a little. It will be nice to have this portion complete!

Plus, I don't love English.

I love working with kids.

Maybe I should reconsider!?? Sheesh.

WHAT DOES GOD WANT ME TO DO????!!!!

I am working til' midnight. We are going to try to take the kids to see a movie tomorrow (Monsters & Aliens).

I need to try to get some homework done while I make calls...it can be rather tricky :)

God Bless!

~Bethany :)

Long Time No Post!

2009-03-27T23:14:00.002-04:00

Actually, it is going to be even longer before I can post anything of length! Life is still crazy...yep! And it is going to get worse :) That's okay though.

One of my favorite blogs is www.mycharmingkids.net. The sweet lady that writes this blog has a new baby that is struggling with a heart issue. It is quite serious. I am going to put a pic on my sidebar so we can remember to pray for Stellan. He's SO adorable and God has done miraculous healing in his life thus far. We pray that He will continue to allow Stellan to stay with his family and do great things in the future! You can click on his picture there and read updates and so forth.

We are all still plugging along! I have to get back to homework :(

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

BLURBS

2009-03-11T19:10:00.002-04:00

Okay...I don't have much time, but I wanted to post a few updates...

First of all, I am EXHAUSTED. I have been student teaching for 8 days. I am now working my 'real job' as I write and I started my class yesterday. Yep. I am physically tired and a bit emotionally tired! But I have decided to 'count it all JOY' -- and I am stickin' to it!

Sam has been on the new meds for a few weeks now. We think it is helping! Still a little too soon to know for sure, but he is much more patient with the other kids and he got a B+ on his last Math quiz.

Mark is now able to type 40 words a minute on his stenograph machine. Now, he needs to up it to about 225 or something crazy like that. He's on his way!!

Did I tell you I am exhausted????

Blessings!

~Bethany

Busy Week!

2009-03-06T19:28:00.003-05:00

I made it through ONE WHOLE WEEK of student teaching! Woo hoo! And guess what? I actually taught today :) I taught a room full of 11th graders all about concubines. Can you imagine a better subject?? HA! Actually, it wasn't too bad. I even learned a few things myself :)

I do like it though. I'm getting to know my mentoring teacher better....she is great! I really like her. What a relief!! And I am pretty sure she likes me too, which makes it even better.

I have new information regarding the MEGA Reunion. I sent a group email out to all the members and asked their thoughts about where to have the event. I specifically asked one man, Don, if he knew of a farm (thinking that he may even OWN a farm) and he responded almost immediately. He said he would LOVE to have it at his place! There ya go! I just hope, if there are 600 people there, that we can accommodate!!!

Better go...I'm at work (my 'real' job)!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Student Teaching Update

2009-03-03T20:36:00.003-05:00

Hello!

Well, I have been a 'student teacher' for all of TWO days!

Yesterday, my mentoring teacher was absent....which was a little awkward! I sat in the classroom with a sub for the day.

Today was good. I really like my mentoring teacher, Sara. She is quite a bit younger than me as well (no surprise) but we seem to click pretty well. Funny....while I was introducing myself to one of the classes, I told them I have a son that is a Senior there. They thought that was 'cool'. And I added, jokingly, "I know I don't look old enough to have a Senior....". DEAD SILENCE. The poor things didn't know what to say! I shouldn't do that to teenagers....it's not right :)

I am at work now at my 'real job' until 10 p.m. On Thursday, I will go in to the hospital for my 2nd infusion. I am glad because the pain is returning...

I talked with a man from Southland today...you know, the church where I grew up....where we want to have the MEGA Reunion? It appears we need to find a new location. They just don't have events like that on the grounds. SO....I am going to write our Facebook group a note and see what ideas we can come up with.

I'll keep you posted :)

Alex, the oldest, is going on a 4-day trip with school tomorrow....he is in Youth In Government. I suppose he will be doing debates and other political-type duties. I'm sure he will have a good time!

That's all for now....

Blessings!!

~Bethany :)

Quick Notes...

2009-02-28T22:55:00.005-05:00

This reunion that must happen....it is definitely going to take a LOT of people pitching in to help!
I made contact with my home church. I thought the best place to have it would be there on the grounds. The person that wrote me said that probably can't happen....I don't understand why. He gave me his phone number, so I am going to call him next week and see how that works. Why couldn't we have it there? Hmmmm....

Gabe is feeling MUCH better :)

Comedy For A Cause was great fun last night! Taylor Mason was there...he is a RIOT. I'll have to see if he is on YouTube.

I had that headache forever it seemed but it finally went away later this morning. Thank the Lord!

OH....we had a rough morning. Sam was scheduled to be in Solo & Ensemble. He's been practicing for weeks with 4 other people in his choir. Well, we went to the school where the event was held and found that we had missed it completely! His group was scheduled for 9:25 a.m. and Sam was sure that his time was 10:45 a.m. It was HORRIBLE!!! We talked to his teacher....she felt so bad. You know, because of Sam's ADHD, he doesn't do well with times. I mean, it is his fault for getting the time wrong, but I should have double checked....I knew that this was a possibility but I wanted to be able to trust Sam to get the right time. What a drag :(
He feels terrible because he didn't get a medal with the rest of the group AND he had a duet with a girl for one song and she ended up singing alone. I felt so badly for him. Why didn't I just double check the time????

That's gonna take a while to get over....

Better go.

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

The Dream ~ MEGA Southland Youth Reunion ~ The Brewster Years

2009-02-27T15:33:00.004-05:00

I haven't posted for awhile....I've been busy with poor Gabe. He is better now :) I took him to the Dr. and they did a blood test for mono (!) and it came back negative. They also did a urine test, which was fine too. The Dr. concluded that he got a virus on top of the strep. Go figure.

I took him to Disney on Ice last night. Or should I say, he took me? I've always wanted to go! We were up kind of high, in the 'cheap seats', but it was still fun! I'm glad we had the experience but I don't think I'll be going again until I have grandchildren to spoil :)

Something else that has kept me busy the past few days is this grand idea that I have....to create a MEGA youth reunion in 2010 for everyone that went to my home church. Everyone that had Brewster for a youth minister. Brewster McLeod has been on staff at Southland Christian Church since 1979 (he actually started as an intern in 1977 I believe). He ministered to hundreds of 'kids'! I am one of those kids.

SO, I posted a note and created a 'group' on Facebook. I titled it the same title as this post. Around 90 people have joined in just 2 days! It's very exciting!!! Next, I have to set a date....talk to someone from Southland to reserve the grounds and such....I have no idea what I am doing, but I know it must be done!!!

I'll keep you posted :)

I am working for a few hours then heading to church for Comedy for a Cause...which is always a fun-filled evening. Except that I have a headache....which I am praying goes away very soon!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Sickness & Student Teaching

2009-02-22T19:11:00.004-05:00

Gabe is sick :(

Remember, I took him to the Dr. last Saturday? The Dr. took one look at his throat and said it was sure to be strep. I started him on the medication...he was better the next day....then, this past Friday night, he climbed into bed early and went to sleep, all on his own! That's not Gabe. Then, yesterday, he got a fever. Last night, I had him sleep with me, just to make sure I could keep watch over him (yes, I am paranoid!). I don't like it when he is sick because it doesn't happen often....and he still has a tough time explaining what hurts. I don't understand how he could be taking an antibiotic and still run a fever. What's up with that?

I guess I will be calling the Dr. tomorrow.

I received confirmation for student teaching! Woohoo! I start March 2nd and will continue until June 5th (which is Alex's graduation day....not sure how that will work!). I'm kind of nervous...this is a whole new adventure!!! I truly have NO idea what I am doing!! I just hope Sara (my mentoring teacher) likes me!!! (I'm so needy, eh??)

Have a blessed evening!!

~Bethany :)

More Snow...

2009-02-21T17:15:00.003-05:00

We are getting hit with more snow today. Although it is beautiful, I am sick of it. It took me an hour to get to work....twice as long as normal! At least I got here safely. We will see how it goes at midnight when I try to drive back home!!! UGH.

Mark's birthday went well :) Our friends, Rob and Lisa, came over for dinner. They were entertained by all of our children....at least I hope they considered that entertainment! The lasagna and key lime pie turned out rather nice too. I gave Mark one of those memory foam pillows....and a Bible Explorer CD-Rom....which came in the mail the next day. I think there are a lot of different translations of the Bible on it or something...I'm not sure! Mark said he had wanted it so I ordered it for him from CBD (Christian Book Distributers).

Rob and Lisa brought him a bag of Dunkin Donuts coffee...a new coffee cup, and a book. Funny, Mark didn't drink coffee before he met me! I've ruined him!

Yesterday, I took 3 of our brood to catch a bus from church to a winter retreat. Our church was kind enough to give us scholarships so they could attend. So, Alex, Sam and Alyssa should be enjoying a day full of tubing, rock wall climbing and worship. The camp where they went looked beautiful from what I saw online. I hope Alyssa is making some friends...she struggles in that department...the social department. I hope she grows out of it. Anyway, we will get a report sometime tomorrow evening!

I went in for my infusion this past Thursday. I can't really tell if it did anything or not. It may take a few time before I see a major difference. It took 3 hours!

More news later...gotta work!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Gloom...

2009-02-18T18:24:00.002-05:00

I don't know why....

I feel very gloomy. The past few days, I'm just not myself.

I guess it could be the weather. It's February....cold, rainy, snowy....the opposite of what I would prefer! Maybe I am frustrated with my RA. My body doesn't feel that great. I am getting my first infusion tomorrow morning and have mixed feelings....I mean, I am happy that this is an option. I am concerned about side-effects.

Tomorrow is Mark's birthday and I am planning to make lasagna and key lime pie :) That is, if the infusion doesn't do anything weird to me! I really don't believe it will....but still.

Maybe I am feeling sorry for myself!! I shouldn't. God has blessed me more than I deserve.

I am almost done with work. I am going to Target to print off some photos from a disk. I told Jordan we would scrapbook sometime this weekend.....maybe that will boost my spirits!

Blessings!!

~Bethany :)

President's Day

2009-02-16T14:00:00.003-05:00

Well, today is apparently 'President's Day'.

My kids are off of school today and tomorrow....my stepkids are off ALL week. The stepkids have a dental appointment today....so Mark took them there and their mom is supposed to meet him. Mark has class tonight, so we really can't keep the kids since he will not be home. We will probably get them back by Wednesday or so....

Seems we are always trying to arrange schedules--I suppose that is normal for any family!

Mark's birthday is Thursday. He will be 37. I am a year and 5 months older than him, so for a few months now, I will appear to only be one year older :) I can't believe I will be 39 this year!
UGH. Anyway, I am not sure what to do for Mark's big day.... I ordered him something online, but I have a bad feeling it won't arrive in time. Either way, all of us will be together and cake will be made....ice cream will be served! Possibly lasagna :) (Mark's favorite)

I found another new friend on Facebook! Her name is Kelly and we were friends in 8th-10th grade. We had some fun times together! She lives in Texas now. We are attempting to catch up, but there is so much time to cover! I'm sure we are both much different than we were last time we chatted....time truly changes us. We will see!

I'm feeling ill-ish today......I am SO ready to have treatments again. I mean, I am scared of the side-effects, but it doesn't really matter anymore. I talked to the Rheumatologist this morning and I am set for an infusion this Thursday morning (Mark's birthday!). We'll have to pray that my body receives it well!!!

Since Mark has class tonight, I am going to try to spend some time with the boys. Maybe eat out...go shopping? I checked the movie listing and there isn't anything they all would like.

My friend at work gave me a Kohl's card with $45 on it! That is SO helpful since Alex is going on a 3 day trip in a few weeks....he is involved with Youth In Government and will be mentored by a Senator! He really needed some new pants and a button-down. God just keeps blessing me!!!

I better go! Almost time to leave work!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Happy Valentine's Day!!

2009-02-14T18:57:00.002-05:00

I hope everyone was able to eat CHOCOLATE today :)

Mark gave me a really beautiful, fragrant, purple flower (a Hyacinth?). He also gave me some chocolate...special, fancy mint M & M's and Starbucks truffles of some sort....very yummy! And a sweet card of course...he always knows just what to say! I am very blessed to have such a wonderful husband...I know that sounds corny, but it is the complete TRUTH! I just gave him lots of candy :)

There wasn't much time to prepare for Valentine's Day this year. Sheesh. What a week.

THEN...to make matters worse, Gabe got sick! Mark had to pick him up from school yesterday because he had thrown up :( I took him into the Dr.'s this morning....strep throat again!! This is the 3rd time this school year. I think some parents are allowing their wee ones to go to Kindergarden sick.

So, yesterday, Mark's ex wasn't feeling so well either. It sounded like she was coming down with a stomach flu...which is not good...since the kids could all get hit with it. We decided NOT to pick up the kids last night due to their mom's mystery sickness and Gabe's. This morning, we checked on the ex and she was still feeling bad, but the kids seemed fine....although we still had the issue with Gabe. When we found out it was strep, we still thought it best to not pick up the kids....since he will be contagious until he's on medication for 24 hours.

Here I am...working a few hours, while Mark and my boys are home. It's so weird because, on Saturdays, the house is always bustling with all our 7 kids! And today, it was so very quiet.

Maybe we will get them tomorrow...

Spring cannot come fast enough!!

Again, Happy Valentine's Day--I pray you feel loved today!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

HOPE Does Not Disappoint!

2009-02-13T10:51:00.003-05:00

Romans 5
Peace and Joy

1 Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ,
2 through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand. And we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God.
3 Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance;
4 perseverance, character; and character, hope.
5 And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.

I am at work today....

I have to admit, I am not feeling all that well. I woke up at 3 a.m.(or was it 4?) with some significant pain in my wrist. I am SO scared that pain will hit me again! So, Mark got me some medicine. I was able to sleep until 7:30 or so. I've been working for almost 2 1/2 hours....it isn't unbearable, but I am struggling.

I was reading the selection above this morning. I've read it many times. It never gets old! I love where it says that hope does not disappoint us....God has poured His love into us!

There is a much bigger picture than what we see here on this ol' Earth!

Whatever you are struggling with...physically, emotionally...let us HOPE. We won't be disappointed! We are LOVED!

Happy Valentine's Day!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Notes From The Hospital Bed

2009-02-10T18:40:00.002-05:00

Hello!

Yes, I am still here!

Before I explain the reason in greater detail, I would like to mention that I finally set up the link to serious.life magazine on my link bar to the right. Check it out! The little girl on this month's cover is fighting Leukemia...she is 4 and is just the sweetest thing. We are praying for her to get through a frightful round of chemo...she is suffering, but hanging on.

And here I am...in the hospital for something not so serious (or it would seem). Yes, it could be serious....but the worse result would be to lost my wrist joint. And I doubt that will happen since I am getting injected with two very strong antibiotics.

Let me go back to the beginning of this adventure! At approximately 4 a.m. on Sunday, I woke up from a sound sleep to an excruciating pain. I've never felt this type of pain before. It was in my right wrist. Now, for a few years now, my RA (Rheumatoid Arthritis) has been aggressive in attacking my wrists, so I do have pain and swelling...but nothing like this! After trying to fend it off with steroids and a pain pill, it was obvious that it wasn't going to go away. Somehow, Mark got me into the car (apparently, I passed out twice on the way!), we left Alex in charge of the kids (all 7 were home!) and were on our way. I cannot explain this pain. I would rather have given birth to 10 babies in one day that endure that again---I mean it!

The ER Dr. took a biopsy of my swollen wrist (again, excruciating!) and sent it off to the lab. In the meantime, I was admitted and given pain meds and antibiotics. By 7 p.m. that evening, I was feeling MUCH better. Not perfect, but good! I didn't need pain medicine. I thought..."Oh, I bet I will only have to stay here one night". Didn't happen! See, my white blood cell count was 23000 (or 23) when I arrived to the ER. The next morning, it was at 19. Now, it is around 16.3. A 'normal' count is anywhere from 4-10. I am not in the normal range, so they are making me stay.

The biopsy is still negative....so there doesn't appear to be an infection. So, why is my white blood cell count still high? Is that 'normal' for me? Because of the RA? Because I haven't had my injections in almost a month? These are all questions that we do not know the answer.

Basically, I am doing okay. I am just waiting! I will miss 3 days of work. I miss being home. I miss the kids. I have too much to do to be here! BUT, I do not want pain like that again. How can I prevent this?

What will likely happen is that I will have to start taking an infusion-type drug instead of the injections. These infusions take about a 1/2 hour and I think I have to start off going to the hospital every two weeks. There are worse side-effects with these types of drugs, so I will have to be careful.

I was never sick until this hit! Oh well. Poor little Abby....think of all the children that fight life threatening diseases every day....how can I complain??

I'll keep ya posted.

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

*P.S. My roomie is gone. I'll have to tell you about her on another post!

Scenes From Our World...

2009-02-10T02:02:00.004-05:00

It's official. I can't sleep here at the hospital. My neighbor had an...well, let's say an accident. And the nurses turned on ALL the bright lights. I started to cough when I finally got comfy again...I tried the earplugs. I tried the ipod. I just can't sleep. This IV thingy is stinging.

Anyhoo...I decided that I would try to post this again.

1. (above) Mark and the kids (minus Alex) at one of my favorite parks down the road. I cannot WAIT until the weather is like this again!!

2. There is an actual 'Sled Hill' a few miles from our home. It's a park that made a hill just for sledding...can you imagine?? There is even a 'warming house' at the bottom. Here are 5 of the crew making their way back to the top.

3. Christmas at Uncle Bob's (minus dad). Included are my cousin Matt, his wife DiAnn and their sweet new baby Amelia!

4. I had to include this picture of Buttercup...our house cat. She is a good kitty :)

5. Dad and I this past December at a Christmas party. I brought Gabe and Jordan to the American Legion (where Dad is the Commander) and they talked to Santa and got a present...pretty good deal!

6. Oops...half of the group isn't looking at the camera! Oh well :) Here we are in Kentucky, visiting Mark's dad and his wife (minus Alex and Sam...and me-I am taking the picture!)

Last Spring....Gabe was a 'star' in his class performance.

*NOTE--I am listening to the iPod right this very moment and a Toby Mac song is playing...not exactly sleepy music!! lol

Here I am in Holland...no, not the one far away! Mark and I were able to take a short trip to celebrate our 1st Anniversary last year. Behind me is a lighthouse and Lake Michigan.

I just like this picture! This was taken right after Christmas, 2007. Mark, Gabe and Alex (and myself) are standing on the frozen lake across the road from our home.

Someone (aka me) had this brilliant idea to have all the kids get hermit crabs. So, last January, we did just that. And now, I feed them! Sure, they were exciting for a few weeks....anyone want a hermit crab? Or two?? We only have 4 left!!

I suppose that is all for now! I don't know how I will sleep. The snoring has begun again. The nurses are talking in the hall. You know, this is an expensive place to be...you would think it would be a little more comfortable! Maybe I am missing something....

God Bless You All!

~Bethany :)

The Drama!!

2009-02-10T01:44:00.004-05:00

Okay...so I worked for a whole hour posting something and I had to scrap the whole deal! What a drag!

Then, I am at the hospital (long story...I'll tell ya about it asap) and my IV started to leak. So, the nurse had to transfer it from my arm to my hand (that was a bit painful). Now I am watching it to make sure that it doesn't 'back up' if you know what I mean. Last time I had one of those, the vein in my hand grew to a scary size...it was not good. It's been 5 minutes and nothing bad has happened so far!

I should probably try to sleep....my neighbor here is a snore-er. And she sleeps with the TV on. Mark brought me the iPod to listen to. And I have ear plugs. But what if my hand explodes after I fall asleep?? The drama....

I will post what I had planned tomorrow!

Good night/Good morning!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

This Is Sad!!

2009-02-06T09:21:00.003-05:00

I got this picture in an email yesterday....

It said, "Summer's almost here in Michigan ...we can now see the deer moving around.

Yep, won't be long!".

That is just plain depressing!!!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

I Wish...My Blog Was More Pretty!

2009-02-04T11:12:00.003-05:00

I have been playing around with the different templates on here...I just can't seem to find one I like! I mean, they are pretty nice and all...and free even. But they aren't exactly 'pretty'.

I guess I should look at how my other blogger friends decorate their pages.

Guess what? This blog was on a list of blogs in a magazine! Here is the link -

http://www.seriouslifemagazine.com/

I haven't read this month's whole issue yet, but I plan to. There is a lot of good info in there! I need to post a fastlink on my sidebar but that will have to wait until I am at home. I am not permitted do such things on my work computer :)

So, who is sick of winter?? Me!!! Anyone else?? I don't know....but it seems that every year becomes more cold. What happened to all the talk of 'global warming'? I don't get it.

I remember when I was young and I would make fun of people that talked about the weather all the time. Now, I'm that kind of people! Ha :)

We still need a 12 passenger van...or a small bus. We have $1000--that's it. We've been praying earnestly for quite some time. I SO pray that we can find a passenger van that all 9 of us can ride in. Course, I would be thankful for any dependable vehicle, but taking 2 cars everywhere can get tiresome.

Apparently, all is good to go concerning my student teaching placement! I had NO idea that my application was officially accepted. Then, on Monday, one of my counselors called and said that I was scheduled for my 1st seminar class on March 10th (I think). For her to be able to schedule my classes means that the application has been approved, thus causing the financial aid to be processed....everything should be ready! I still don't know how we are going to physically do this student teaching thing for 3 months! We will see :)

Most of us in the family are fighting a cold. It's been irritating but no one has had anything too serious.

Have a great day!
Blessings!

~Bethany :)

My Scarf!

2009-02-02T17:25:00.004-05:00

Well, I decided to start knitting a few weeks ago and I finally completed my 1st scarf!!

Hopefully, I will stick with it enough to get beyond scarf-making :)

Have a wonderful day!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Random Pics

2009-02-01T00:30:00.003-05:00

Hello!

I thought I would post a few pictures....

These are from 2006 and also our wedding in 2007. We are soon to be celebrating our 2nd year Anniversary! Well, not until April 7th, but it will soon be upon us!

The first picture here is from our wedding day. As you can see, everyone looks cheerful (although tired)...all except for Josh, who wasn't real happy that his parents were not getting back together. So, he didn't smile. He looked quite pitiful actually. I felt bad...but you know, each of us is different. I remember wanting to have my parents back together...even if they didn't like eachother, it's really a feeling we sometimes cannot control. He's fine now :) I don't think there has been another family picture taken that he looks this miserable...thank the Lord!

The girls and I got ready in the church nursery....Gabe and Jordan had a blast playing while we waited :)

Mark and I standing on a beach in Port Huron (Lake Huron is behind up)...we spent the last night of our honeymoon there.

I love this picture of Mark and the girls!!

The day we got engaged :)

It was October 2nd...which is my brother's birthday. He had died earlier that year and Mark wasn't sure if it was appropriate to pop the question on his b-day. I was okay with it...he would have been happy for us! Plus, I will never forget that date :)

This is the view from the spot that Mark asked me to marry him. It was a beautiful evening and we were the only people in the park at the time (that we knew of!). This was also the spot were we had our first kiss :) It's a special bench!

More random pictures another time! Gotta hit the hay!

Blessings!!

~Bethany :)

Facebook

2009-01-29T14:31:00.002-05:00

Apparently, our state missed the lovely weather that is annoying the folks below us. There has been a lot of ice....I know this because some of my Facebook pals live in Kentucky and they were hit real good! We really should call Mark's dad and see how he is doing in that mess...he lives down there in horse country.

I really like how Facebook works. I've found people that I knew when I was in 5th and 6th grade for Pete's sake! I even found my 6th grade teacher. She remembered my red hair :)
I found my older brother's best friend from high school, which is nice since my brother has passed away (February 13, 2006)...he reminds me of Steve and it makes me feel better for some strange reason.

I also have become 'friends' again with people from my church youth group so many years ago. Even my youth minister is on there! Oh, and people that I've known through the years in college or in past jobs. It's really cool!

I don't really spend much time on Facebook but it's nice to know that those people are there. I have a connection with each and every one of them. I do not become 'friends' with anyone I don't really know or that I shouldn't have a relationship with for whatever reason. One must be smart. Afterall, it is still the Internet. All kinds of weirdees get on there!

I am at work. Gonna leave soon. Mark and I are supposed to go out tonight. Maybe we will use our giftcard for Stir Crazy....that's a fun place to eat :)

Seems everyone is fighting some type of illness or another....my oldest stepdaughter is sick with a cold/fever, G. has a runny nose and Mark and I are feeling a little off. We gotta pray that we can fight off whatever is going around!

Blessings!!!

~Bethany :)

Abby

2009-01-25T21:25:00.004-05:00

Matt 19:14 - Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these."

'You know why the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to those who are like the children? Because children can have cancer, be in agony, throw up 30 times a day, barely able to walk, need morphine just to keep from crying... and still give hugs, say 'I love you', dance with her friends, smile, be thankful and never once complain.

Then we grow up... and moan about unfairness, express discontent about what we don't have, murmur and grump over every discomfort, say 'I love you' only when we feel like it is deserved, forget to be thankful and of course, we are WAY too embarrassed to dance, showing our love for just being alive.'

Mark says not to read sad things....and I understand why, because I tend to get 'involved' and I tend to worry about our kids. But these families need all the prayer they can get! If my baby was sick or even dying or had cancer....whatever....I would want to have as many people pray as possible!! I respect what Mark is saying, but I need to pray for my sister's children.

The first few paragraphs above are from another blog by the Rigg family. Their adopted daughter has cancer and is struggling to get through treatment. I thought this father's words were so profound....it is completely true!

I had to share!
I am going to put a link to the Rigg's family's blog on the side...please pray for this sweet baby girl.

Blessings,
Bethany :)

January 25

2009-01-25T18:56:00.003-05:00

Guess what??

I am OFF on Monday and Tuesday! I thought I was only off on Monday, but I checked my planner after church and I was so happy to see I have two whole days off!!

Let's hope I use my time wisely :)

I would LOVE to say that I am going to give the whole house a thorough cleaning, move furniture around to liven up the drab environment and maybe even start my scrapbook project for Alex! Realistically, I will probably lounge around a bit, clean a little and spend time with Mark and the kids :)

Church was so FUN this morning! I love singing in the choir! I love singing in general!--I'm so blessed to be able to sing (to have a voice) and to have such an awesome church home. If the special that we did today goes on our church webcast, I will definitely post it on here!

We had a great talk with all the kids today about angels and the Spiritual Realm that we are unable to see. Mark and I were talking about it last night after the kids had gone to bed....we've never really discussed that topic with them before. It's important that they know that it is part of us as Christians. Anyway, the kids were interested and made several good points...asked many questions!

S. (my 13 year old) seems to be doing well with this new medication. We started at 40 mg and the Dr. suggested to try 60 mg after four days...well, S. was not able to keep it down if you know what I mean. So, Mark talked with the Dr. and even though that could have been a fluke and he could have thrown up due to several other reasons, we asked if S. could continue on the 40 mg for now. I mean, it doesn't even really start to work for two weeks. It's been 10 days and there already seems to be a change for the better. We are seeing that S. isn't getting as upset as usual and he is more calm....less anxious and more satisfied. OH, I am praying that this will help him! He is such a talented, sweet young man...God can use him for mighty things!!! He's been struggling for so very long....

I am at work. On Sunday. Until midnight. I am thankful to have this job! I'd just rather be home with the family on Sunday night :(

I should hear something about my student teaching internship soon. I am waiting for confirmation that my application has been accepted so I can prepare. Life is going to be a challenge for those 3 months!

I must go for now!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

TLC?

2009-01-23T14:43:00.002-05:00

We need someone to come over and organize our home!!!

Mark and I had planned to move to a different house by now...seems like that isn't going to be possible for quite some time. It's not easy to stay organized with all the kids and very little space. And there isn't any color...it's all tan :(

I just wish we could make it more comfortable....

I'm getting ready to go home now (been working since 8 a. m.!). I finally have a day off tomorrow! Course, I won't get anything done...all the kids will be there and we will be spending time with them. Such is life!!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Divorce

2009-01-22T12:00:00.002-05:00

That word is just plain ugly.

DIVORCE

Websters defines divorce as 'the action or an instance of legally dissolving a marriage' (http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/divorce).

I always feel a little hypocritical when I tell people how terrible it is to divorce. After all, I have been divorced...Mark has been divorced. It's not pretty! In each of our situations, our spouses made the decision to 'dissolve'. Although our divorces were 'biblically acceptable' and all, it didn't (and still doesn't!) make it easier.

If I could express how difficult it is to divorce, I would. I know a few couples that are on the edge of something drastic and the only reason they are contemplating divorce is because they 'don't get along anymore'. Sure, there are valid reasons for divorce....such as abuse, adultery, abandonment....but it's definitely not a good enough reason to 'not get along'!! But we see it all the time.

Divorce is heartbreaking. Even if you don't like your spouse anymore by the time it happens, there is a marital bond that breaks and it is impossible to explain to one who has never experienced it. Yeah...even if you don't love that person anymore, there is a bond. Actually, anyone that you have 'relations' with...whether you are married to them or not...that bond is there. That is why it is SO important not to have pre-marital sex. If you do, it really causes problems! Not only is it a sin problem...but the reason that God doesn't want us to do it is because of this bond.

That's why so many people marry the wrong person!!! It took me awhile to figure this all out!

See, if you have pre-marital sex with whoever your dating, whether you are planning to marry them or not, you are BONDED. And if you bond with someone you aren't going to be happy with for the rest of your life, or someone that God did not intend for you to marry, you are in HUGE trouble! If you are having 'relations' for 'for fun' or for whatever reason, you could possibly end up marrying that person. That is exactly what happens. You almost feel obligated to do it! This bond is very strong people!!!

This breaking of the marital bond thing that happens with a divorce is surely the reason why the couple gets upset, argues...all kinds of negative feelings are created. Worse than when they were together! It's terrible.

And the kids....oh my goodness. That's another post!

The saying that pops into my head when I discuss this topic is, "Do as I say, not as I do". I know, I know. I am divorced. I remarried. What's her face......Dr. Laura? Do you know who I am talking about? She says that if you divorce, not to remarry until your children are grown. She's not the only one...many Christian psychologists say the same...or to wait at least 5 years. For Mark and my situation, so many positive changes have taken place within my children's life since he has arrived. His presence has helped them in so many ways. That's probably another post as well :)

I pray often...I wish I could say daily, but that wouldn't be honest...that our children will 'do as we say, not as we do'. I pray that they will wait to date. I pray they will date only to find the one God has intended for them...not just date 'for fun' to whoever they are attracted to at the moment. Mark and I talk to them about it....some of them could care less at this time in their life...but we still discuss it. It is SO important. To me, who you marry is the 2nd most important decision you will EVER make. The first, well, that is the decision to accept Christ as your personal Savior :)

I'm done rambling! Pray for your kids and their future spouse. Pray for your marriage. If you are struggling and you don't have a biblical reason to divorce (or there is no abuse involved), don't give up!!! God can still make your life beautiful!!!!

Blessings!!!

~Bethany :)

A Day Off

2009-01-20T13:13:00.004-05:00

Yesterday, being Martin Luther King Day and all, made it possible for me to spend some time with my boys!

The day started slowly...we slept in while Mark left early (to pick up his new stenograph machine!). Well...except G., the 6 year old, came into my room before I was awake to make his presence known. He's very chipper in the morning you know. All I remember saying is, "G., can you let me sleep a little longer? Maybe find a few books to read? Something quiet to do? Huh?". That worked for all of, oh, 5 minutes! Wouldn't you know, this morning, when I had to get up for work, he slept in!

Anyway, the boys all had appointments to get their teeth cleaned...it was the only day I had! So, we got a bite to eat beforehand and drove over to our new dentist's office.

See, when Mark lost his job, we lost dental insurance (along with health insurance of course). We immediately applied for Medicaid for the kids. There are only two dentists in our area that accept Medicaid. When you pull up to some of these places, you never know what you are going to get! As we rode the elevator up to the second floor, A., my 18 year old, said something about having Medicaid before and having to use 'lesser' medical care...in so many words. He wasn't upset about it...just making that recognition, that's all.

I immediately thought of missionaries. When they come back to the states for their furlough, what would they use for medical insurance? Their options are to either pay for their own plan or apply for Medicaid (I am assuming?). And what do the adults do? Medicaid is only for children., people with disabilities and Senior Citizens, right?

Anyway, we are so very fortunate to have what we have....even if the dentist doesn't provide handheld games or a prize box! The boy's appointment went well...G. was so excited that he was able to sit 'like a good boy' and have a cleaning! He was satisfied with a sticker and a new toothbrush :) I was thrilled that all 3 boys were cavity-free!

We then proceeded to the mall--one of my favorite indoor activities! I was able to find G. some new tennis shoes at Marshall's (I love that store) and I treated the boys to an Aunt Annie's pretzel. I wonder what the fat content is in one of those suckers? It's gotta be high!!

To top off the day, Mark and I went out for 'Date Night'. We ate Chinese and went shopping at Target....life is good :)

Now, it's back to work and the boys are back at school. But it's not just another day....we officially have a new President! He will need lots of prayer!!!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

I Must Share!

2009-01-19T17:46:00.003-05:00

This is SO funny!

I sent a mass email out to all my friends/family to announce this blog...my Dad emailed me back and said (paraphrased), "You scared me for a minute! When I saw you were announcing a 'blog' I didn't know what is was....I thought you were pregnant!!!"

How funny is that??? :)

Well Dad, now you know what a blog is!!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Winter Scenes

2009-01-19T11:20:00.004-05:00

Ahhh...Winter! Although I am amazed at how beautiful the world looks outside my window today, I'd prefer to experience Winter just that way...looking outside, not being outside! Especially not driving in it! lol Oh well. It is beautiful and God did create it, so I'll make lemonaide...I can handle it.

Here are a few pictures taken in the past few weeks. I wish I could put on more, but I have to take the boys to the dentist!

Blessings!!

~Bethany :)

SEVEN Stockings...8 if you count Buttercup's (the cat)

Cutting down the tree (yes, J. is holding an ax)

This is what our street looked like a few days ago!

RA....

2009-01-18T11:25:00.004-05:00

So..this is how it is.

I am 38 years old and married to a wonderful, loving, God-fearing, sweetheart of a man....I have 3 amazing boys and 4 lovely step kids--all healthy so far. I am a nationally certified Interpreter for the Deaf...which is a rewarding and interesting profession. I am close to finishing up a Masters in Secondary Education...soon to be doing my student teaching internship. I have an awesome church home and have the privilege of being on the worship team and the choir. My Dad lives 8 miles from me and my Aunt and Uncle are close by as well. My mother and I are estranged....(that is a weird word!) but that is nothing new.

My life is good!! God has blessed me much more than I deserve :)

I guess everyone has a thorn in their side (so to speak) and mine happens to be Rheumatoid Arthritis.

I obtained this autoimmune disease while pregnant with my 3rd son, G. I was 32 years old and I believe it was 2003....yes, because G. was born in November of 2002 but the Dr. did not make a diagnosis until January of 2003. Anyway, when I heard this diagnosis, I knew NOTHING about Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA for short) and thought it was just a disease for 'old people'. After some research, I remembered that I had heard of JRA--Juvenile RA--and that RA is definitely not just for the elderly. That type of arthritis is generally Osteoarthritis. SO, anywho...getting hit with this disease was quite a blow! It started out quite aggressive. I went from never having to take any medications to taking some strong drugs. It effected my knees and feet at first. I remember not being able to walk well many mornings. I was interpreting at a college at that time and one morning, I parked and started to attempt to walk to my client's classroom (which wasn't even that far from the lot) and it took me a good half hour and there were tears involved...it hurt so badly. My son, Alex, was 12 at the time....it was just us, me and the 3 boys. G. was a newborn and he had to sleep with me because I couldn't lift him from his crib if he woke up in the middle of the night. Alex was my right hand man...I couldn't have done much without him at the time. He could help with diapers, bottles, tying shoes...I would leave a cell phone with him at night in case I needed him. He was a trooper! And he is such a fine man today...already 18!

Today, I still have issues. We (meaning the Dr. and I) had hoped that my medicines would cause some type of remission to occur by now. They haven't. I take Humera injections, Methotrexate....Prednisone. If the Humera doesn't work, I have to consider infusion medication. Which would mean that I have to go to the hospital every two weeks and take my medication through an IV. I really would rather not! It's more dangerous. Plus, it seems uncomfortable on many levels!

But you know....I could have cancer. I could have a sick child. I could be alone. I could be a non-Christian and not know the love of my Father in heaven. I could be confined to a wheelchair or a bed. But I am none of these! Others are, and I feel so badly for them. I cannot complain that I have RA. Well, I admit...sometimes I do complain :) Mostly to Mark....poor thing! The kids know to be careful around my hands...which are greatly effected now (mainly the wrists). They are swollen almost constantly and if hit, there is excruciating pain involved!

What I am trying to say is....my life is good! The RA stinks sometimes, but it could be much, much worse.

Gotta go for now!
Many Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Today is FRIGID FRIDAY...

2009-01-16T11:38:00.004-05:00

Hello! It was so darn cold today that they cancelled school for the whole county! (Or it least it would seem that way). Mark's kids were off today anyway so we got them early (last night) so I'm sure they are ALL (all 7) having a wonderful time at home now....while I am working! Poor Mark...home alone with the kids....stuck indoors. We'll see what the damage is when I return.

AH...they will be fine I'm sure. I am the one that struggles with taking care of all 7...Mark is WAY more patient than me. My biggest problem is that I don't like conflict....which isn't quite realistic for a person in my position! lol

It looks like Mark may have found a stenograph machine for around $500. That is one great deal. So, one of my 'concerns' listed below has been taken care of :) Course, free is always better...but it doesn't always work out that way!

I took S., my 13 year old, to the Dr. yesterday for an evaluation concerning his ADHD. We are going to try a new med. I know....I don't like it. But honestly, if he is going to survive into adulthood, he is going to need some help! It may just be temporary. I don't even know if this medication will work for him. I think we tried this one when he was in 4th grade and he slept during class. Now that he is older, we will see if he has the same side effect. Mark and I went to his school yesterday morning to see his drama class put on a short play....it was cute. They did 3 fairy tales that were a bit 'off'....in a funny way. S. was a messenger in one story and a wolf in the other. He did good. Next week, he starts practice for the big Spring Musical....

We are thinking about taking the kids to the movies tomorrow....I wonder if "Hotel for Dogs" is any good?

We had a good conversation with the kids last night about being light in the darkness....it's interesting to hear Mark's kids talk about the contrasts they see with the kids in public school as opposed to the kids they knew in their former Christian school. Mark's daughter, J., seems very comfortable sharing the gospel! That's good, cause for the rest of us, it isn't so easy! I hope she is able to feel the same as she gets older...that is truly a gift.

We enjoy talking with the kids...seems the best time is in the evening before bed. They share about school, pets, awkward situations....they will bring up prayer requests. S. (my 13 year old) will usually say over and over, "Okay, let's go to bed--come on guys...are you done yet??". Nice, eh? Now, if we were watching a movie, he wouldn't say a thing! He'd stay up all night! Must be related to ADD.....sigh...

Back to work!!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Back to School!

2009-01-13T11:27:00.003-05:00

My husband Mark started his class last night! He graduated High School in 1990 and took some college courses a few years later. Then, more children came along and life got a bit more complicated. He never was able to finish.

Fast forward to 2009...his recent layoff is making it possible to go back. See? Good things come from bad things :) The problem we are having now is trying to find a stenograph machine. If anyone knows where to get one (CHEAP) or has one we can borrow....we would be very appreciative. Those suckers are expensive! A decent one costs $1000 - $1500.

It is not even (technically) mid-January and I am already tired of Winter---I don't want more snow and I surely don't want the temperature to fall to zero degrees tonight! Brrrrr!!!

Blessings!!!

~Bethany :)

Thoughts....

2009-01-09T11:58:00.004-05:00

I am thinking today....thinking of how God is going to work in our lives during this challenging time.
I have a list here of concerns. I am not worried....no. Worried is not the right word at all. Not that I don't worry....I am human after all. But I have learned through these trials that God has a much greater plan than me. It is sometimes necessary to have changes to get to the good stuff :)
Nonetheless, here is....

Bethany's Official List of Concerns

My son S. and his behavior...praying it will improve and we will all be happier! He is maturing slowly, but I prefer he moves ahead a little quicker before he gets himself into more trouble. We are thinking of trying new medication...I'm am leery of side effects. What is going to work best for him?

Our vehicle 'issue'. We have a minivan and a Ford Fusion. The Fusion is a lease and we are unable to keep it due to Mark's job loss. If we wake up one morning and do not see it, we will know why (I know....it's not a pretty situation)! We have a little money put away for a used beater car....but my concern is that we find one that is reliable and fitting for our large family. Ideally, we need a 12 passenger van.

My son A. and his future plans. We have an idea where he may go to college...but he needs scholarships!!! Should he pursue elsewhere or keep trying for his 1st pick?

My student teaching placement....will my finanial aid cover class cost? Will we survive with me working 1/2 time, student teaching full-time and RA?? Will the mentor teacher and I be fast friends? What am I getting myself into???

Mark's need for a stenograph machine for school. How can we afford this? Can our lawyer friend find one he can borrow or buy cheaply (these things are $1500 or more!). We need to pray that Dave, our lawyer friend, can find one of these devices!

So...that's it!
I'll keep ya posted on how God will work in our lives!

Blessings!

~Bethany :)

Answered Prayer!

2009-01-08T10:31:00.000-05:00

Just wanted to let you know that Baby Stellan is just fine now! God took care of him :)

I am working today...sigh....I actually like my job, really! I am still grieving from not being able to be home with the kids more. At the hours I am working, they are all in school (for the most part) but I tend to work at least one shift during the weekend. I just feel far away from them...

Mark is a trooper--he takes care of the homestead for me while I am away. What would I have done without him??

Have a blessed day!

~Bethany :)

Stellan...

2008-12-30T12:15:00.003-05:00

One of my favorite Blogs is called "My Charming Kids" and their newest child, Stellan, is in ICU with RSV. He is hanging on at this point, but it is very scary for this sweet family. If you see this, please say a prayer for Stellan to pull through this without any problem. During pregnancy, his parents were told that he would die from some type of heart problem but the Lord had other plans for him. He was born completely healthy! So now, with an unrelated illness, there is this threat again...that something could go wrong. But we believe that God did not save him from his heart condition so that he could die of a serious cold! No way!!

Hope everyone has a wonderful, blessed 2009!!

~Bethany :)

Blended Thanksgiving Festivities!

2008-11-25T10:43:00.005-05:00

Happy Thanksgiving!

This our 2nd Thanksgiving as a stepfamily and plans are now underway! Actually, while Mark and I were dating, we celebrated once, but this is our official 2nd Turkey Day!

This year, we are doing things a little different. Seems that EVERY holiday that we've had in Michigan have been celebrated at my Uncle and Aunt's house. And we always have a wonderful time together! My dad is there as well and sometimes my cousin and his wife. Well, this year, my cousin and his wife have a brand new baby girl! She was born on November 6th...which will be easy to remember since Gabe, my youngest, was born on November 8th. Anywho....they will be at my Aunt and Uncle's but we decided to have dinner with Mark's brother and his wife this year. Then, on Friday, we will go visit my family and see the baby and such. We thought it would be a good idea for my Uncle and Aunt to have some time with the baby this year, since she is so new and all. It does get a little hectic with all the children running around crazy-like :) Sooner than not, she will be running around with a runny nose like the rest of them!

We're excited to go to Brad and Kathy's to eat together and play Killer Bunnies :) My cousin introduced us to this awfully fun card game....you should check into it! My only problem is trying to figure out what to cook :) Sweet potato pie, sweet potato casserole....corn casserole....what??
I told Kathy not to be concerned with what the kids will like. They are all way too picky! Mark and I decided that we don't care what they eat on holidays anyway. Who wants to stress about that on a day of thanksgiving? Not me!!

If someone by chance happens to read this, I pray that your Thanksgiving is blessed and stress-free!!!

~Bethany :)

Trick or Treat!!

2008-11-15T00:47:00.005-05:00

I was thinking....I'd LOVE to make a sincere effort to maintain this blog. I haven't even told anyone about it (well, except for Mark of course). I was waiting to decide on what I should focus.....

It MUST focus on our stepfamily!

There are many times when I would like to know how other families deal with issues that are created with a family like ours....a non-traditional family if you will :)

The fact of the matter is, there are many, many, MANY step-families. We need to support eachother and know that we are not alone!

So, for now, I am officially making it known (again, I realize no one has really read this blog yet!) that I have changed the blog title in hopes to pursade others to take a peek.

*Regarding the picture: We had such a fun time together on Halloween this year--yes, Mark and Alex are wearing kilts!

~Bethany :)

My Birthday

2008-07-22T18:14:00.002-04:00

On July 9th, I had my 38th (38th!!) birthday. I must confess.....it's getting a bit harder to 'celebrate' being almost 40 :) Not that 40 is a bad thing. It's just strange. I don't feel my age.

Several times in the past few years, I've noticed little girls running around in tiaras. Meaning, they wear them for playing dress up or for their birthday. I've even seen women wearing them at a nearby downtown-type festival. I guess it was 'ladies night' and one of the stores gave out tiaras for a special prize. Anyway, I've never had a tiara!

Until now! Mark gave me one for my birthday :) It looks almost like this picture. I should have shown you the picture he took of me with the kids...but I haven't downloaded it off my camera just yet. Now I have my very own tiara. I have NO idea when I will wear it! I guess I can for each birthday....maybe again for a costume party of some sort.

Mark is the best husband I could ever ask for. He's absolutely perfect for me. And yes, he spoils me a little (okay...a LOT). Thank you Lord for giving me the best gift EVER--my husband!

Our Family Mural

2008-07-04T18:04:00.002-04:00

A few weeks ago, I had the kids make a 'family mural' of sorts. I took brown packaging paper and rolled it out onto the sidewalk and I painted lines to divide the paper into sections. We called the kids outside and put them to work.

It was interesting to watch them....Mark and I have 7 children together and we like to see how they interact with one another, especially when we do a group project. The two littlest boys went down to the far end of the paper, the youngest girl took the biggest space/division she could find, one middle son took, well, the middle....the two oldest were next to him and the other middle son stayed close to Mark and I (we shared the last space...the one you can see clearly in the picture! If you click on the pic, I believe you will see all of it better!).

It is so amazing how well our children get along....I mean, sure, there are times when some aren't getting along so well...or there is the occasional bicker. Honestly though, God has blessed us with some really great kids!

Being in a stepfamily is a challenge.....in fact, there are moments of complete chaos! There are also times, like the time we made making a mural, that we work together as a family. Sure, it's a non-traditional, crazy-at-times, family with 7 children....but we do alright I think. I'm pretty sure we are one of the best stepfamilies I've ever met :)

-Bethany :)

Life....and death

2008-05-29T18:57:00.000-04:00

Life is fleeting....we seem so fragile!

I know that no one reads my blog yet, but my heart is heavy for several families right now and I must write about them.

The link at the bottom of my blog goes to Angie Smith's blog. Her husband is in the band Selah. Angie's blog is basically about her daughter, Audrey Caroline, who went to be with the Lord just two short hours after her birth into this world.

Sadly, this family has been hit with death again...Todd Smith (who is Angie's husband) has a sister named Nicol Sponberg (who used to be in Selah). Nicol and her husband Greg just had a beautiful baby boy this past March. Nicol went to check in on him the other night and he wasn't breathing....they think he may have died from SIDS but they are not sure. I cannot imagine....

Another family I am thinking of and praying for is the Steven Curtis Chapman family. Oh my goodness.....their youngest daughter was outside playing and their 17 year-old son accidently hit and killed her with an SUV. She had just turned 5.

My heart is heavy for these that are grieving their precious little ones. I know that, as Christians, we are not immune to these horrible trials....but it is impossible to understand why God allows it. It's mighty tough to trust God in these circumstances...only He knows the reasons.

If you happen to stumble upon this blog for some reason...please say a prayer for these families.

And if you have children....go kiss them and thank the Lord you have them today!!!!

-Bethany :)

Interpreting

2008-05-28T12:25:00.000-04:00

I figure since I am at work (again) that I could at least explain what I do :)

I am a nationally certified Interpreter for the Deaf. At this time, I am a video relay interpreter...which is essentially a phone operator. Deaf individuals call us on their videophone and we can see them on our computer screen (and they can see us)...they will give us a phone number and we call it. After we are connected, I say my line ("This is Interpreter # ____ and I have a video relay call for you") and if they don't hang up (smile), I will interpret the call for the Deaf individual. It's quite exciting!

Use this link to find out more: http://www.sorensonvrs.com/?gclid=CMXr6snRyZMCFQUNIgodWScxhg
Actually, I was going to put a video on here, which would be even better...but I couldn't figure out how to do it! Dang...

I like my job...for the most part. There are stressful times, just like any job I figure. I love the Deaf community, so that helps :)

-Bethany

The First Day...

2008-05-27T12:24:00.000-04:00

So, this is the first official post on my blog. I'm so excited!!!
Actually, I am at work....so I can't say too much. In fact, I should probably go.
I'll write more soon!

-Bethany